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Why I stopped liking headspace

I have no idea why I get so passionate about disliking this app. I know it's loved by many, but every time I try to use it I get frustrated and angry instead of peaceful and centered. And this is one-time thing after which I just gave up. I've…
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I'm noticeably changing

The past three months have marked a remarkable transformation in my life. Change has always been a constant companion, a continuous ebb and flow. Sometimes going up and sometimes going down. When I used to tell people about not feeling alright,…
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Look at how great I am

Have you seen those videos where they explain what emotional labor is? Well, I finally learned what it is this past year. Yes, I’m 34 and had no idea what it was or what it entailed. To paint a picture, a year ago, when I just moved into my…
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I had a dream, but it didn’t work out

When you set a goal for yourself or figure out what your dream is, you might feel energized to go to work. You know you can do it; there's no doubt about it. You only see possibilities. Oh, wait… Until you look closer. Because what happens…
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I finally learnt I could cook for people

I’ve never been a great cook. I’ve made my own dinner for about 18 years now, but I still fuck about in the kitchen. I just don’t really care for cooking. So when I became an au pair for a family with a busy and stressful life, I did everything…

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How to make difficult decisions

What makes something a difficult decision? I don't label a lot of things as decisions because I always change my mind, and I've made peace with that part of me. I could make it very philosophical, but in this case, I'll put myself in the shoes…
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Books & Products

Book: Spark Joy

If you're already inspired to start organizing, take a look at "Spark Joy." Marie Kondo was already well-known but has become even more famous through her Netflix series. While I'm not a huge fan of the Netflix series, I swear by the book. Her…

Book: Verlangen naar minder (Dutch)

Jelle has described a smoothly flowing story about his journey to minimalism in this book. A nice introduction for those interested in minimalism but don't want to read only theory. You can finish this book in one go, and you're immediately…

Book: GRIP

Rick has summarized the most well-known productivity methods in this super Dutch, short, and clear book. In brief paragraphs, you're told which steps you can take to gain more control over your life, starting with your schedule. A great way…